Saturday, June 6, 2015


Khud se hee faraar, ab hona chaahtu hu,
har gam ko inkaar, ab karna chaahta hu,
dil mey chhupey se ye jo armaan hai,
un sabko mehsoos, ab karna chaahta hu.

Phir kaisi hai ye dor, jo rok deti hai,
kaunsi hai woh aawaaz, jo tok deti hai,
aur chalta rehta hu main is raah par,
ye raah, jo khud mey mujhko kho deti hai.

Is dor ko tor, us aawaaz ko nazarandaaz,
khud se hee faraar, ab hona chaahtu hu.

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Reason for Glee

A merry thee,
a somber me,
Thou shalt laugh
'n' I shalt see,
to borrow a reason
for mine moment o' glee.

The Times

Gone by are the times,
gone by are our times,
sure to come back again,
if only, we stop looking back.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Him in Me

I hold on to him,
the him in me,
as though this me
was never supposed to be.

I hold on to him, the him in me,
a clean soul, a spirit so free
and I try 'n' try to just let go,
but the me in the end does always bow
before him -the me of years ago!

Friday, March 9, 2012

What's your good name?

“What’s in a name?” Shakespeare once famously asked. However, had he been an Indian, he might have asked, “What’s in a good name?”

Does it strike a bell? No? Well, no offense, but chances are that if you are an Indian, you too use the phrase “What is your good name?” or at least do not find anything wrong in it. Well, how can it be wrong, when referring to some one’s name as “good” is a mark of utmost respect? A polite and gracious way to ask some one’s name! Well, the truth is that it is not! Simply put, it’s wrong English!

Until a few years back, I too was guilty of using the so-commonly-heard phrase in India. It was one of the sessions on communication which I attended in my office that brought about the revelation! The instructor animatedly described the reaction people from outside India would generally give, when asked for their “good name”. Some of the reactions are as follows:

“My… what???”

“My good name??? Are people supposed to have a bad name as well?”

“I don’t have a good name or for that matter a bad name! Just a name!”

“You mean my family name? My nick name? I am confused!”

A quick Google search for the dubious question also affirmed the same. You see what I am getting at? The phrase simply doesn’t exist in Queen’s language and thus makes no sense for the people from English speaking nations.

To be fair to us Indians, let’s do a bit of analysis. As you would have already guessed, it has to do with some of the Indian languages that tend to give respect to a person’s name. The basis of it lies in that many people here lay a lot of emphasis on the newborn’s name and make sure it is in agreement with what astrology/numerology tells them. The name is supposed to influence one’s destiny. Thus, an appropriate name is supposed to be quite auspicious. In fact, if you go for literal translation of Hindi phrase “Shubh Naam”, it gives “auspicious name”. But “auspicious” probably got substituted by a more general and easy-to-pronounce-and-remember “good” and hence “Good Name”!

Although, when it comes to speaking in Hindi, it’s one of the most polite ways to ask for somebody’s name. And it sounds beautiful!

This does in no way justify the usage of the phrase in English, which is relevant mostly in Indian context. It however puts things in perspective and helps us understand how sometimes a figure of speech having its origin in cultural beliefs of a community breeze into the usage of a foreign language.

So next time, just ask “What is your name?”, and if you want to sound polite, you can always add the word “Please”!